Whether those plays should have been runs or outs, odds are we should have sent some. Sometimes it is about running on contact and sometimes it is about running into outs. And we have a tendency to run into outs. Even Bailey's tag up and running to 3rd was LUCKY she was not out. When you say why stress that we should have had 1-2 more runs, we didn't have 1-2 more runs. We do have a tendency to run ourselves into outs. This has been talked A LOT here about the 3rd base coaching decisions.

Funny though coming from you since you are often stressed