I am currently cheating on my wife, but it's not really cheating

caveat: we have gone through a lot including bad illnesses / recoveries and guns

Just telling how it happened....

I befriended a woman i was in contact with totally casually but I could tell she was attracted to me by the way she looked at me and the things she said. She was in a position of hospitality so it could've been gentle flirting but I sensed more.

Down the road I was waiting for a ride in a common place (hotel) and she approached me and we struck up a conversation, which lasted about an hour. When we were done I felt a real connection to her and I had her cell phone (she gave it to me).

When I got to the airport I called her cell and just went for it - I told her I was totally attracted to her and that I felt a connection and hope she did too and wanted to see her in a more private setting and she agreed.

I spent most of my early years avoiding rejection but as an older more confident person didn't care. She was MUCH and totally hot and younger than me so that had a lot to do with at as well. To my surprise she was receptive and said she felt the same way. She was fucking HOT and I was really amazed with my game.

Fast forward as few months we have been seeing each other about once every few weeks and having crazy sex. I feel no guilt. I still love my wife but my attitude at 58 is YOLO. I'm pretty attractive/in shape/ and have desires. But that doesn't take away my love for my wife who has been through illness and who I am supporting. I bang this chick and she loves it but has no desire for a relationship, which is perfect.

Judge away 0 that's my story.

In response to this post by Brown Water

Posted: 04/30/2018 at 11:31PM

How many of you Lizards have cheated on your current spouse? Your answers -- Brown Water 04/30/2018 4:28PM

Depends on what your definition is.... -- Full-Set and Moonshine 05/01/2018 6:43PM

Never. I've known her about 16 years now married almost 11. -- HortHokie 05/01/2018 2:41PM

In over 25 years, I have never found a reason to even consider it. If I did -- thankbud 05/01/2018 11:30AM

Depends on what the definition of "is" is...... ** -- The Bear 05/01/2018 09:40AM

I watch pr0n a few times a week. ** -- BG Hokie 05/01/2018 09:37AM

Never. Blessed to have a wonderful wife of 21 years -- Hokie1992 05/01/2018 06:17AM

No. But look constantly at God's magnificent design of women -- VaAkita 05/01/2018 02:28AM

I am currently cheating on my wife, but it's not really cheating -- MrMojoRisin 04/30/2018 11:31PM

Did you start with "Hello, I love you." She clearly lights your fire. -- King Jaffe Joffer 05/01/2018 10:24AM

I must admit I'm a little surprised at all the denials. I certainly never -- Brown Water 04/30/2018 10:03PM

Yeah, right .. twist this on me again. ** -- Full-Set and Moonshine 05/01/2018 6:46PM

I'll bite. I did. -- HokieGator 04/30/2018 10:02PM

Why would I ever want to mess up a good thing? -- Hokie CPA 04/30/2018 9:08PM

Never once.Nope.Nada Straight on the line Not gonna happen -- DonHo-kieHi 04/30/2018 8:53PM

Eatin' ain't cheatin' ** -- Brown Water 04/30/2018 9:51PM

Payin’ ain’t strayin’ ** -- VT Pops 04/30/2018 10:10PM

You qualifying it with "current" spouse? ** -- 133743Hokie 04/30/2018 6:50PM

Nope ** -- astrohokie 04/30/2018 5:58PM

Does it count if there were white rocks? ** -- WestyHokie 04/30/2018 5:28PM

Yes, many times (inside) -- FfxStationHokie 04/30/2018 5:08PM

Your wife went to UVA? ** -- bigbadbird 05/01/2018 07:31AM

Never ** -- Major Kong 04/30/2018 5:00PM

You answer first ** -- CPRVHokie 04/30/2018 4:57PM

Agree ** -- BleedinOandM 04/30/2018 8:22PM

Will the answers be published on the internet? -- jmanatVT 04/30/2018 4:53PM

Buhahahahahah ** -- Full-Set and Moonshine 05/01/2018 6:48PM

Is it still "cheating" if you're in an open relationship or into swinging? -- VTHokie2000 04/30/2018 4:53PM

Delete** -- Major Kong 04/30/2018 5:00PM

Never ** -- scoop76cs 04/30/2018 4:45PM

I am currently cheating on my wife, but it's not really cheating

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