so I may have missed your entire meaning or taken your post out of context. I also have an ailing parent so I understand the difficulties in helping a parent and dealing with family dynamics too, in this current crisis. I only responded to that specific post because there's a lot of people calling others "scared", etc. and I generally disagree with that approach of calling others scared. If you were referring to specific family member(s) in your specific situation, okay, no prob, it's your situation, just disregard as I didn't mean it for your specific situation. There are certainly different levels of precautions people are taking, and I typically advocate for people to follow the basic levels and I disagree with those that are unwilling to follow basic levels or those that criticize people for following safety measures. Go Hokies!