actually "Lil Bugg" with an extra "G". That is mainly used by older member of her family. Once we were married it was replaced by "3M" or "3 Emmy" as it were. That is what nearly all of her friends from The Women's Club, The Garden Club of Virginia, or The Junior League will use in addressing her. As a side note, The Garden Club is rather distraught at how the Corona Virus will disrupt this year's presentation of The Massie Medal. Obviously a major event in the Massie Family calendar.