Definitely a LOT of hell in that

As slow as things are going, when they happen -- they happen fast. In late June 2014, my mom was bouncing my son on her knee. In early July 2014, she had a trach vent in and was bedridden from then on.

In early November 2015, one Sunday she was in great spirits, smiling and laughing and visiting with people. Monday night she was in the ER and Thursday she was dead. A long, slow, painful decline with a very rapid end.

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Posted: 02/19/2016 at 1:55PM

I'm so tired. I'm too old to be awakened in the middle of the night & -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 11:42AM

God bless man..My folks are "in the process" as well. I guess-> -- HOKIERIT 02/21/2016 09:34AM

Prayers and understanding. Been there before. ** -- VaAkita 02/20/2016 11:38PM

Hang in there. Your day is coming too. ** -- MikeVT85 02/20/2016 11:14PM

You had an awakening? And I didn't feel it? ** -- Hokieesith 02/19/2016 2:05PM

Ugh-def tough on you-driving to my moms, I think "is this the time...?" ** -- TD-Tech 02/19/2016 1:23PM

Certain memories will fade and healing will come -- Newt 02/19/2016 3:23PM

Me too - It crosses my mind everytime I kiss her goodbye. -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 1:42PM

Yep, understand completely. My mom is 87 and in assisted living -- 133743Hokie 02/19/2016 3:14PM

Definitely a LOT of hell in that -- Nova Hokie 95 02/19/2016 1:55PM

You completely understand how this feels, don't you? -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 2:00PM

Yes, I do. Which is why I need to stop thinking right now ** -- Nova Hokie 95 02/19/2016 2:03PM

Prayers. Hang in there. ** -- vt90 02/19/2016 1:01PM

So sorry... ** -- Hokie5150 02/19/2016 11:59AM

Thank you, my friend. -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 12:15PM

Your dad is Curly? -- statmanfromHCyrs 02/19/2016 12:25PM

Ha! -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 12:32PM

"Getting old isn't for wussies" is what my grandfather always says ... -- OXVT 02/19/2016 11:47AM

I've got to get my mom to stop putzing around her home -- Late 80s Hokie 02/19/2016 12:09PM

Yeah.. We say, "Getting old is messy business" -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 11:56AM

Is that OOP or Medicaid? -- Nova Hokie 95 02/19/2016 12:02PM

I should add it's the same way with the VA Aid and Attendance benefit -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 12:20PM

I can't imagine how anyone could navigate it without help -- Nova Hokie 95 02/19/2016 12:57PM

I hear you. No one ever tells you about the details of -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 1:04PM

It's OOP. It's nauseating. ** -- hokieonceremoved 02/19/2016 12:10PM

Wow! and sorry that sucks for everyone involved. -- HortHokie 02/19/2016 11:59AM

Definitely a LOT of hell in that

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