a little hard on some of these kids they dont always make good choices like most at that age, but this loyalty thing is a choice and a little presumtious. People today are not loyal to family let alone a job or school. And remember most of these kids chose Vt from a lot of places that would have compensated them for their efforts and image use etc that generates big bucks for said school. They dont owe a school anything just as the school does not owe them; it was a mutual courtship that doesnt always last in eternal bliss and devotion. Be happy for the ones that upon breakup it is amicable.