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Soften how you frame it.


Everyone is different but you don't have to give a flat "it's ok to die". You can qualify it how you feel suits you and them best. i.e. I love you very much and I'll miss you like crazy every day but I see the pain you are in and know something is better for you on the other side. It's ok to move on but if your not ready I will be here for you every day fighting along side."

I guess my point is the message doesn't need to be a hard "It's ok to die". That may be the bottom line but you can soften it however you want or think they would want and that is the message they will hear. Don't box the decision to say something into the guilt box of "I told them to die". It's not true and thinking like that will mind screw you. Prayers your way.


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Posted: 05/13/2019 at 12:01PM


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  Soften how you frame it. -- MilwaukeeHokie 05/13/2019 12:01PM
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